KEY TO SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP :

1. Without quality time, your relationship
will not survive. Carve out at least half an
hour a night, and at least one day a month
when you the two of youspend time
exclusively together.
2. You will both need security, comfort. A
good relationship is built on compromise
and a great deal of give and take on both
sides.
3. Keep your dependence and
independence in balance. Tell and show
your partner how much you need him, but
don't cling, as that can make your partner
feel trapped.
4. Encourage him to listen to you,by
showing appreciation when he does. By
the same token, show interest when he
talks to you. Be aware that most men
aren't mentally programmed for
conversation in the way women are. They
need more silence and internal time.
5. Make him appreciate you. Don'twait for
a spontaneous compliment, but say
something good about yourself and ask for
his agreement.
6. Teach him, preferably early in your
relationship, exactly how togive you a fail-
safe orgasm because it's unlikely he'll find
out alone. If you don't yet know yourself,
find out.
7. Learn to do the one thing that is most
likely to restore good feeling in your
relationship - giving your partner a genuine,
loving and approving smile.
8.Often those subtle quirks that first
attracted you to your partner can, with
time, turn around and become toe-
curlingly annoying habits. Learn to love
him, warts and all.
9. Hidden resentments poison a
relationship; so if something bothers you,
say it. Remember that while men are wary
of emotional conversations, they love to
find solutions. Express your problem and
then ask him to help you find the answer.
10. Learn that punishing your partner
won't work. It may makeyou feel better to
give him a hard time, but it will actually
make him dig his heels in more. A better
tactic is to reward the things you like and
ignore what you don't like