See The 5 Best Times To Have S£X [Especially #5 – Must Read]

1. In The Morning: Morning S£X is the most important meal of the day. You’ll look better and feel relaxed. It strengthens the immune system for the day and enhances levels of an antibody which protects the body against infections. It releases chemicals that boost levels of estrogen which improves the tone and texture of the skin and hair.

2. Before A Workout

S’εx before an intense workout or other strenuous performance will increase the levels of tεstostεronε and you can at least maintain the same performance or even do better.

Exercise can improve s’εxμal pleasure and power because of its effects of increasing flexibility, stamina and strength.

3. After a Bad Day

Maybe someone had hit you during the day, you were pissed about something, experienced a bad event during the day and you need something to cool down your nerves.

The best thing to think of is s’εx with your partner. S’εx is a healthier choice than a couple of beers. After the bad day take a shower, play happy music, get off social media and have s’εx.

4. Free Days

Public holidays, weekends, between Christmas and New Year’s Day, when you and your partner are likely out of the office.

When you have no work pressures and are spending many hours with your partner, it’s much easier to have luxurious, unhurried s’εx that will last. A slow build-up is key.

5. Before An Interview Or Presentation

S’εx calms down nerves and lowers high blood pressure so its advisable to do it with your partner before an interview. You might feel tensed and disturbed about how the presentation will go, s’εx is there to make you feel less stressed.

Generally, the longer you’ve been with your partner, the harder it is to be creative in the bedroom . And m!ssionary styl’ε every Saturday night can get a little boring. To mix things up, try s’εx in the morning, after a bad day and even before a workout.

The other best time to have s’εx is NOW! What are you waiting for?

GUYS ONLY: Checkout The Best Position That Will Make Her Scream Non Stop

GUYS ONLY: Checkout The Best Position That Will Make Her Scream Non Stop

What most guys don’t understand is that in the female @,n@t0my, the most significant point is the center of gravity and to dismiss popular myth, the center of gravity cannot only be st!-mul@t3d with the fingers, it can also be fully st!-mul,@t3d with the j0y-st!ck, all you have to do is know the right $3 x positions that would st!,-mul-@t3 her center of gravity, giving both of you maximum satis-faction and ensuring that she screams without fa king it.

THE ANVIL

This position is amazing because it allows deeper pen etration and allows the j0y-$t!ck to hit the elusive center of gravity. Also, the male’s pubic bone will come in contact with the f3=mal3 ec0r3 for some delightful clit oral st!,-mul-@t!on which will be like a double jackpot and should make it too hot to handle.

The position however has its cons as both partner must be athletic and flexible, holding the position for long can appear to be a strain

THE MIS SIONARY

 The Mis sionary Po sition is definitely one of the most common positions couples use when making lo ve, they are however ways to make this position more pleasurable and intense for the lady. here’s how to go about it; Use a pillow to elevate your butt for deeper pen etration, Wrap your arms around him and pull his body close to yours to boost the !ntim@cy, Grab his hips as he’s thrusting so that you control the power and speed—not his pe lvis, make eye contact as holding his gaze and seeing every single one of his emotional reactions to your body is beyond hot—it’s practically an inferno.

THE REV ERSE CO W GIRL
In the position, the lady takes charge while the guy just sits and flows with her momentum, here’s how to go about it;

Have your guy lie on his back and, facing his feet, straddle him with your knees on either side of his hips. Or, if it’s more comfortable, squat over him with your feet flat on the bed. When he’s nice and hard (and you’re well lubricated), place one hand on the bed or his legs to steady yourself, as you hold the base of his j0y$t!ck with your other hand, and slowly lower yourself onto him.

Once you are securely inside him, start moving up and down using your leg muscle to hold momentum and remember you in a control so mix it up a bit and enjoy every moment.

THE G-FORCE

the G drive Pos ition

For the G-Drive Po sition, she lies down on her back and pulls her knees close to her chest.

He kneels up in front of her, grabbing hold of her feet. Thrusting his hips forward he can pen etrate her while controlling the movement and supporting her balance.

For the ladies you are free to re-invent your own style and build up your pa ssion, eat healthy and be creative with your partner.

50 Interesting Facts About . Vaginas

The vagina is a potential space, meaning that if nothing is holding it open, it collapses, like a sock without a foot in it.c Some companies sell heavy metal balls, such as the Ben Wa Ball, that are used to tighten vaginal muscles. The ball is simply carried around in the vagina.b The word “vagina” is Latin for “sheath” or “scabbard.” The plural of vagina is vaginae orvaginas.b The vagina begins at the opening of the vulva (from the Proto-Indo-European *wel- “to turn, to revolve,” and is related to walzan “to waltz”) and ends at the cervix (from the Latin cervix, “the neck, nape of the neck”).a,j While each woman’s vagina is different, the average length of an unaroused vagina in a mature woman is between 2.5-3.0 inches wide and 3.5 inches long. The vagina can expand up to 200% during sexual intercourse and giving birth.b Inside the vagina is a series of ridges produced by folds of the vagina called thevaginal rugae. They allow the vagina to extend and stretch.e The safest way to clean a vagina is to let it clean itself Hair around the vaginal area grows only for three weeks. However, the hair on a person’s head can grow for up to seven years.b The vagina is self-cleaning and, consequently, physicians discourage douching. The vagina has colonies of mutually symbiotic flora and microorganisms that protect against dangerous microbes. Disrupting this balance can cause yeast infections, abnormal discharge, and more.h The vagina is not an open conduit to the abdominal cavity. While tiny, microscopic sperm can swim through the opening of the cervix, a tampon will never fit. So it is impossible to lose a tampon, condom, or anything else in a vagina.b In a condition called pelvic prolapse, a woman’s vagina can literally fall out and hang between the legs. Pelvic prolapse, however, can often be fixed.b Both sharks and vaginas have a substance called squalene. Squalene exists in shark livers and is also a natural vaginal lubricant.b A 27-year-old woman in 2011 was charged with possession of heroin after 54 bags of the drug were found inside her vagina.k While rare, it is possible for a woman to develop an allergy to the proteins in semen. This condition is known as human seminal plasma protein hypersensitivity. Most cases only involve itching and swelling after sex, but in some cases it can be life threatening. Research shows that certain women are allergic to certain men but not to others.b While vaginal discharge can help lubricate the vagina, it is different from the vaginal lubrication produced during sex. The lube comes from special, pea-sized ducts called Bartholin’s glands, which are located around the vaginal opening.b Vaginal muscles can stretch, loosen, and sag Vaginas (like breasts, knees, and bottoms) can get saggy. Pregnancy, childbirth, age, hormonal changes, genetics, and years of gravity can weaken the supports of the female genital tract, which causes sagging. There are several ways to avoid sagging: 1) Kegel exercises, 2) maintaining a normal weight, 3) avoiding constipation, and 4) not smoking.b Vaginal discharge does not contain any waste products. Instead it contains the following: fluid that seeps through the walls of the vagina, cervical mucus, uterine and tubal fluid, secretions from glands in the vulva, oil and sweat from vulvar glands, old cells from the walls of the vagina, and healthy bacteria. Vaginal discharge contains mostly salt water, mucus, and cells.b The average amount of vaginal discharge a woman of reproductive age secretes over a period of eight hours weighs 1.55 grams (1 gram=¼ teaspoon).  Every woman makes different amounts of vaginal discharge, though it varies depending on where a woman is in her cycle. A woman procures the greatest amount of discharge (1.96 grams) around the time of ovulation.b While vulvas typically vary between women, most vaginas look alike.b One gynecologist reported that a patient of hers regularly used her vagina as a purse. The woman would stuff it with a plastic baggie of pills, a wad of bills, a tube of lipstick, and a pen. The woman later admitted that she had been sexually abused as an eight-year-old.e According to one gynecologist, the most unusual vagina she had ever seen was on a woman who had come in for labor and delivery. She actually had two vaginas, with two cervixes. One cervix was eight centimeters dilated. The other was completely closed. She had had no prenatal care, but her husband had told her for years that having sex with her was like having sex with two different women.e One patient came to a gynecologist complaining that vines were coming out of her vagina. The doctor examined her and found that vines were indeed coming out. When the doctor removed the object, she found that it was a potato that had sprouted vines. The patient told the doctor that her mother told her to put a potato in her vagina to prevent pregnancy.e One patient visited a gynecologist complaining of vaginal itching and feeling like “something is moving around inside.” The examination revealed that there were two to three live maggots in her vagina. The gynecologists had no idea how the worms got into the vagina, but treated her with worming pills, cleaned the vagina, and told her not to put food products into her vagina. At her two-week checkup, the woman was free of maggots.e When one gynecologist was asked what it was like looking at vaginas all day,  she replied “Really, it’s just a bunch of different haircuts.”e The vagina has over 1,000 nicknames  A vaginal “fart,” also called a “queef” or “vart,” is common. Unlike gas expelled from the rectum, which contains fecal waste and has an odor, vaginal flatulence is odorless and unrelated to the rectum (unless a woman has a rare rectovaginal fistula).b The vagina has over 1,000 nicknames, including “passion flower,” “pink pearl,” “ya ya,” “fish taco,” “crotch mackerel,” “cod canal,” “fish factory,” “fuzzy lap flounder,” “tuna town, “ “penis penitentiary,” “cum pocket,”  “yoni,” “warehouse of warmth,” “warm slurpee,” the “V” thing,”  “apple pie,” and “yum yum.”e Each vagina has its own smell. The smell depends on a variety of factors, including the combination of normal bacteria that live in the vagina, diet, types of fabric a woman wears, level of hygiene, how much a woman sweats, and gland secretions.b Bacterial vaginosis (BV) causes the classic fishy smell in a vagina and is sometimes associated with discharge, odor, pain, itching and burning. It is the most common vaginal infection in women of childbearing age. Researchers do not fully understand how a woman develops BV, but know it is associated with an imbalance of the bacteria that are normally found in a woman’s vagina. Increased risk includes having a new sex partner or multiple partners and douching. A woman cannot get BV from toilet seats, bedding, or swimming pools, and women who have never had sexual intercourse can also be affected.h Different vaginas have different smells at different times of the day. Right out of the shower, a vagina may not smell. After running or exercise, a vagina might smell musky from all the sweat glands. A menstruating vagina may smell like iron, and when a vagina has an overgrowth of yeast, it may smell like bread. After intercourse, a vagina may smell faintly like bleach, as semen has a smell of its own. If there is an overgrowth of bacteria, the vagina may smell like fish.e A healthy diet can positively affect vaginal odor Gynecologists say that there are natural ways to make a vagina smell fresher without douching, including 1) eliminate pubic hair; 2) wipe with baby wipes instead of toilet paper; 3) drink cranberry juice, which is a natural antibacterial; 4) go panty free or wear cotton panties to keep the vagina aired out; 5) take probiotics to keep vaginal flora healthy; 6) avoid panty hose and tight jeans; and 7) eat a healthy, vegetable-based diet. Foods such as coffee, asparagus, beets, alcohol, broccoli, onions, garlic, and curry can affect the smell.e One patient was so worried that she had lost something in her vagina, she used pliers to try to find it. She ended up pulling on and tearing her cervix, which required hours of surgery to repair. Most gynecologists recommend that if a woman thinks something is in her vagina, to lube up the fingers with K-Y jelly or olive oil and stick them all the way inside. If she or her partner can’t feel anything inside, chances are good that there’s nothing there. A woman should not be embarrassed to call a gynecologist for help.e The pH (acid/base balance) of the vagina is around 4, which is the same pH as wine, tomatoes, and beer. Some things that change the pH of the vagina are vaginal infections, douching, soap, and exposure to semen.b The largest vagina in history most likely belonged to Anna Swann (1846-1888). She was 7 feet and 5 inches tall and weighed 350 pounds. She gave birth to a 23-pound baby with a 19-inch head.b In 2006, in the novel The Haunted Vagina, a woman’s vagina acted as a gateway to the world of the dead.d In 2009, a healthy kidney designated for transplant was removed through the donor’s vagina at John Hopkins Medical Center. This type of surgery is considered less invasive because the kidney was removed through a natural opening. The more traditional surgery typically requires a 5-6 inch incision through the abdominal wall.g Approximately one in 5,000-7,000 female babies are born without a vagina. Known as vaginal agenesis, the condition is sometime recognized at birth, but most of the time isn’t diagnosed until puberty.b The etymology of the word “cunt” is uncertain. Some scholars believe it derives from the Latin cuneus, “wedge,” or from the Proto-Indo-European *gwen, which is the root of “queen,” and the Greek gyne, “woman.”e Approximately 30% of women have orgasms through vaginal intercourse Approximately 30% of women have orgasms from vaginal intercourse. Some researchers claim that a vaginal orgasm may be a deep clitoral orgasm. Other researchers claim that vaginal and clitoral orgasms are completely different and activate different parts of the brain. The word orgasm is from the Proto-Indo-European root *wrog, meaning “to burgeon, swell with strength.”c The first inch or two of the vagina has the most nerve endings and is the most pleasure receptive.c In about 1 in 2,000 births, a girl is born with an imperforate hymen, which means there is no hole in the tissue to allow menses or discharge to pass through.e The first movie to use the word “vagina” on film was the 1946 Disney animated film called “The Story of Menstruation.”i Painful sex (dyspareunia) is normal after a woman loses her virginity. But if the pain does not lessen and resolve after a while, other conditions may be involved, including vulvar vestibulitis (inflammation of the vestibule), vaginismus (involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles), allergic reactions to things such as latex condoms or spermicide, and endometriosis (when lining from the uterus gets on the ovaries, bowel, and pelvic lining). As women age, lower levels of estrogen can causeatrophic vaginitis, or thinning of the vaginae. Most gynecologists believe that masturbating is healthy and normal because it is safe sex, it releases stress, it is a mood booster, and it helps build pelvic floor muscles. However, there are exceptions. For example, one woman decided to masturbate with a banana. While masturbating, she put the stem side in first and lacerated her cervix, which required a hospital visit and sticthes. If a woman puts something inside, she should stick to smooth fingers, vibrators, and dildos.b The hymen is named after Hymen, the Greek goddess of marriage, and is the membrane that partially covers the vagina. The hymen serves to project the vagina before puberty. After puberty and once estrogen thickens the vaginal tissue, the hymen serves little functional purpose.b In some cultures, a woman’s clitoris is cut off, the labia removed, and the vagina sewn shut, with the exception of a tiny hole (to allow for discharge). Widely condemned as genital mutilation, this horrific practice is done because it is believed it will make a woman more marriageable by both decreasing sexual desire and to ensure virginity.f Vagina dentate is Latin for “toothed vagina” and refers to the folktales in some cultures about women whose vaginas have teeth that can bite off a penis. Symbolically, the stories are told as a cautionary tales to discourage sexual behaviors. They can also prey on castration anxiety as well as the fear that men may be diminished by a woman. However, on rare occasions, dermoid cysts (which are cysts that can contain hair, brain, thyroid, skin, and teeth) can migrate their way to the vagina, which can cause vagina denata.e The speculum (Latin for “mirror”) dates back to 1300 B.C. Speculums have also been found in the ruins at Pompeii.b Debate still exists whether the G-spot exists, its definition, and its location Some researchers believe that the G-spot (the Grafenberg spot) lies two to three inches inside the vagina, on the anterior wall (near the belly button), just under the urethra. They believe this area has a different texture than the rest of the vagina and may be a remnant prostate gland. Other researchers believe that the G-spot does not exist.e Trichomoniasis is a vaginal infection caused by a sexually transmitted parasite. Symptoms include itching, burning, and excess discharge that is bubbly, greenish or grayish, and may smell bad. Over 3.7 million people in the United States have the disease, though only 30% have symptoms.h While some cultures teach that vaginas are taboo or dirty places, one doctor notes that vaginas have also been celebrated through history and that “reclaiming the power and beauty is immensely liberating. Women, and the sexual distinctions that make us women, are the most powerful creative forces in the world.” Additionally, studies show that women who are more confident about their vaginas have better orgasms.e There are several vagina symbols, including oysters, flowers, handbags, and thevesica pisces (the “vessel of the fish” that is often used as a Christ symbol).b

11 Reasons Why Se x is Painful for Some Women

S3x is not meant to be painful.

However, S3x is very painful for some women, for a number of reasons including size of the pen!s/vag!na, health challenges and mental readiness.

Pain during or after S3x, medically termed dyspareunia, can happen during or after S3x and could be felt in the vag!na or the inner pelv!c region.

However, all women should know that experiencing pain during or after S3x could be the body trying to say something is wrong.

The best reaction once you notice it is to see a qualified doctor.

Here are the reasons for dyspareunia:

1. First time S3x – it is normal and common for a woman having S3x for the first time to feel pain because the hy-men is stretched abnormally. It can be very painful too.
2. Dryness, no lubrication – when the woman in dry in the vagina, penetration is more than likely to bring sharp pain and even tears. Using a lubricant will help.
3. Mental block – S3x could be painful when the woman is not 100% ready for it. She needs to be emotionally and physically involved for it to feel good.
4. Infections – some se-xually transmitted infections (STIs) like chlamydia, gonorrhoea and genital herpes can cause S3x to be painful
5. 1. Menopause – when a woman reaches the menopausal age, her changing hormone levels can make her vag!na dry (atrophic vaginitis), leading to painful S3x. Lubricants will come in handy
   2. Vaginismus – this is a condition where muscles in or around the vagina shut tightly and make penetration very painful or even totally impossible
   3. Pel-vic inflammatory disease (PID) – this condition is an infection of the female upper genital tract, including the womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries. It makes S3x painful
   4. Endometriosis – this is a common condition where tissue that behaves like the lining of the womb (the endometrium) is found outside the w0mb. It leads to painful/heavy menstrual periods, lower abdomen, pelvis and lower back pain, and painful S3x
   5. Fibroids –  non-cancerous growths that develop in or around the womb (uterus), near the vag!na or cervix can also cause painful S3x
   6. Irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) – this common, long-term condition of the digestive system can cause painful Se.xy, stomach cramps, bloating, diarrhoea and/or constipation.
   7. Constipation – this common condition that affects people of all ages causes stools to be hard and lumpy, as well as unusually large or small. It also causes painful S3x

   Unless it’s first time S3x, don’t ignore pain during S3x because it may lead to even bigger health challenges in the future.

   The bottom line is that painful S3x is not normal and can be treated once you reach the health experts and explain

EVER ENCOUNTERED  PAIN???

10 Tips To Make Your Woman Scr’e@m And Want More Rounds In Bed

10 Tips To Make Your Woman Scre@m And Want More Rounds In Bed

1. Give her an 0rgasm before real s3x starts

For some women, getting an 0rgasm before the very act commences is one of the greatest turn ons they can ever get. And this is by far the biggest thing women wish their men did more of in bed.

And sadly, most men don’t even try to explore this as they are always in a hurry to stick it inside and hump away. They clumsily plow straight to interc0urse as fast as possible without taking time to engage in serious f0replay. Their idea of f0replay usually consists of a few minutes of obligatory k!ssing, followed by another few minutes of obligatory bre@st st!mulation, and their ultimate goal of interc0urse is reached. No woman wants this; it is as simple as that!

If you can give your wife an 0rgasm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good s3x in her book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. And on top of this, giving her an 0rgasm will make her more responsive and much more likely to have another 0rgasm during interc0urse. S3x becomes better for you, and for her.

2. Pay attention to non-obvious er0genus zones in her body

Most men, and I mean quite a large number of men, only pay attention to the obvious spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her se.xual pleasure. Spots like the bre@sts, clit0ris and g–spot are often attacked with the erroneous belief that this will set her in the right mood. But women don’t want men to only pay attention to these spots as they want you to pay attention to their whole body.

Research has shown that there are 16 other hidden er0genous zones on a woman’s body which can give her pleasure, and which can actually make her more sensi.tive to v@ginal sti.mulation.

Look for these hidden zones on her body and spend quality time working on them and she will be screaming your name in pleasure.

3. Lasting longer in bed

Most women don’t mind if you don’t last that long in bed, as long as you’re good with your fingers, because you will adequately compensate her by working your magic fingers appropriately and in the right places.

But women hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from having 0rgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an 0rgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep?

You need to know how to last 30 minutes in bed at the minimum but if you really want to drive you woman wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in bed. And of course, you can have a quickie once in a while, but most of the time, women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of !ntercourse to have multiple 0rgasms.

And by lasting longer in bed, it includes all the works, the finger works, the cunni!ingus, the oral s3x, the r0mance and above all, the actual s3x itself.

4. Tease her until she begs for it

Again, it is no gain saying that most men do not spend time doing the ground work before the s3x begins. They just plow forwards directly to his goal of !ntercourse with no finesse, just doing the minimum necessary to get to pene.tration.

But what women want is for you to build up to a s3xual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. And when you finally give in to her, she will be grateful to you all the time.

For example, with oral s3x, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her v@gina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her cli.toris.

Do this until she’s pleading with you to give her more and then give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more.

5. More 0ral please..

A typical man wants his woman to give him the mind blowing bl0w j0b but they would be taken aback if their women asks them to go down on her.

Hey, do you remember the saying of doing to others what you would want them to do to you? If your woman can give you a blow job, I see no reason for you not to replicate same. If you know how to do it right, giving her 0ral s3x is the fastest and easiest way to give her 0rgasms.

Once you make her come through 0ral s3x, she’ll be much more responsive during the real intercourse, and much more likely to go down on you. Give your woman plenty of 0ral s3x, and she will love you for it.

6. Turn her on with words of mouth

Women are sensitive beings and they like to hear what you men call sweet nonsense. There is no woman who does not like being complemented and told those sweet things but most men are afraid to say anything or make any noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird.

But if they were privy to pr!vate female conversations, they would know the exact opposite is true. A woman gets bored with a man who is completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even enjoying it.

It’s a complete turn-off. Women want their men to tell them they are actually enjoying what they do with her. Think about it: would you be turned on more by a woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who is scre@ming your name in pleasure and telling you she loved your cock?

You need to learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through s3xual talk.

7. Use s3xual eye contact more

Have you ever had an 0rgasm while looking into your woman’s eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable experiences you can have. The s3xual eye contact heightens the feelings of pleasure and connection beyond anything I can describe in words.

And any woman who has experienced this before craves for more of it. Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your s3xual encounters, and see how much it turns her on. Of course, you have to learn how to do this in the right way but once you do, she’ll love it.

8. Pay attention to her after s3x

Some men just turn their back on their women after s3x and in twinkle, they are snoring off. Nothing is more killing than this. After s3x, a woman is completely open and vulnerable to you. Most guys squander this time by ignoring her after s3x, or by just going to sleep.

Women don’t ‘come down’ from s3xual pleasure as quickly as men though, so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. Believe me, she’ll enjoy s3x much more if you just spend a few minutes doing this.

Plus, what most guys don’t know is that after s3x is the best time to strengthen her s3xual bond to you, so that she wants to have s3x more in the future. If you’re doing the right things here, you’ll never have to beg and plead for s3x because her s3xual bond to you will be so strong she’ll be eager for s3x whenever you want it.

9. Get her to perform for you

Men are obsessed with putting in a good performance in bed. And to some extent, this is not a bad thing because you do want to give her s3xual pleasure and 0rgasms. But if you need to be performing for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her. She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him.

For example, almost all women love giving blow jobs if the guy can get her thinking about them the right way. And if you can get her to perform for you like this, it’ll be a huge s3xual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge 0rgasm – this is what she’ll experience if you know how to bypass her inhibitions and get her to perform for you in bed.

10. Learn how to give her 0rgasms

Finally, be concerned about her 0rgasm and this is very important for her ego and your over all s3x life.

By combining all the steps I have highlighted, you will soon have your woman screaming her head off in bed.

Top 10 Things You Should Never, Ever Put Inside Your v**ina

Top 10 Things You Should Never, Ever Put Inside Your v**ina

Don’t even think about it.

We’re pretty attached to our v**ina, especially since it brings so much fun into our lives. But we keep trying to bring some really inappropriate things into the fun. While we may think it’s exciting and kinky to be adding foods and shiny toys to play time, we really need to be a lot more careful about what goes in there, specifically, these ten things:

1. Fruit and vegetables

Bananas and cucumbers have been notoriously labeled as the “naughty” or a “let me try that just once” gadget due to its shape, size, and easy accessibility during experimental years. But Dr. Yvonka, a clinical sexologist, warns against it: “This is a big no-no and can be quite risky health-wise due to the variety of little critters and bacteria it is exposed to!” No matter how well you clean those fruits and veggies, chances are they’re still carrying around critters, dirt, and bacteria. Food in general is a good idea to keep above the belt, not below. Just because they’re man-hood-shaped doesn’t mean they belong near your v**ina.

2. Douches

Douching can reduce natural bacteria in the v**ina, introduce foreign bacteria, and irritate the mucous lining. It’s also been scientifically linked to pelvic inflammatory disease, chlamydia, gonorrhea, bacterial vaginitis, cervical cancer, reduced fertility, and ectopic pregnancy, says Taylor Stokes, a sexpert at Free Your V.

3. Hair dye

Sure, we all want to show men our pink, heart-shaped welcome mat. But beware: our skin down there is way more sensitive than on our head, meaning hair-dye related burns and irritations are far more likely. And if you’re really adamant about dyeing your pubic hair, do your research first and find products that are free of irritants.

4. Certain lubricants

Lubes that contain parabens, petrochemicals, DEA, glycerin, methylisothiazolinone, and fragrance are a big no-no. Many of these ingredients are linked to cancer, hormone balance disruption, and skin irritations, says Stokes. Also be aware that oil-based lubes are thicker and harder to cleanse out of your lady parts, which can lead to infection.

5. Living things 

Whatever floats your boat, ladies. But just realize that animals may decide they like it better in your v**ina and stick around, says Jason S. James, M.D., and medical director of FemCare Ob-Gyn, LLC. I mean, should “animals” and “your v**ina” even be used in the same sentence

6. Sharp objects

“I’ve heard of knitting needles getting stuck,” says Dr. James. This also includes fragile items like light bulbs and glass bottles.

7. Dirty toilet paper

Ladies, this goes without saying, but ALWAYS wipe front to back. Not doing so can result in fecal matter making its way into your v**ina, leading to infection.

8. Medications

Medications, drugs, and alcohol can become absorbed in too high quantities because the v**ina is very vascular and absorbs chemicals very efficiently, says Dr. James. There’s an urban legend about women placing vodka-laced tampons in their v**ina to absorb the martini-buzz into their bloodstream. But NO, this is NOT a good idea.

9. Soft plastic s*x toys

Because s*x toys are sold as “novelty items,” they’re not FDA-regulated for body safety. Many toy manufacturers don’t even list the ingredients in their toys, leaving us in the dark about what we’re putting into and around our vaginas. “Many soft plastic/rubber toys are made with phthalates, some of which have been designated as possible human carcinogens,” says Dr. Emily Morse, a s*x expert. These softer plastic, rubber, or “jelly-like” s*x toys can undergo wear and tear, and develop cuts and nicks that tiny microbes and infection-causing bacteria can live in, says Morse.

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10. Bodies of water

Pools and jacuzzis seem like an inviting environment for s*x … But “These man-made recreational bodies of water are always chlorinated, and chlorine may disrupt the natural pH balance in the v**ina. Lakes, ponds, rivers, streams, and all natural bodies of water are host to a whole gang of microbes and bacteria that can be harmful to the v**ina. s*x in these bodies of water can force this bacteria into the v**ina, leaving it vulnerable to bacterial infections, irritation, etc.,” says Morse.

So, ladies, be careful with what you put down below.

10 Tips to be a successful Husband

By: IslaamInfo

Source: islaaminfo.co.za

Being a good spouse is important in any marriage. Marriage should be a complete partnership where two people come together to please Allah – and strive to help each other better themselves for His sake. With that in mind, here are some tips to help husbands achieve success.

1. Dress up well for one’s wife:

Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men looked good to please our wives. Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasullullah (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

2. Use likeable names for your wife:

Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasulullah (Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

3. Recognize the good & focus on that:

Don’t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ‘bugs’ us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day  which brings no attention from the husband until she does something to ‘bug’ him. Don’t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

4. Be silent on the wrongs:

If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasullullah(sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (Radi Allahu ‘anhunna). It’s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

5. Smile at your wife:

Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasullullah(sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam)  would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah, even if he was fasting.

6. Thank her:

Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don’t let that be; thank her!

7. Make her happy:

Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don’t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your Life.

8. Comfort her:

Don’t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasullullah(sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (Radi Allahu ‘anha)  was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

9. Be humorous:

Be humorous and play games with your wife. Look at how Rasulullah (Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam)  would race his wife Aisha (Radi Allahu ‘anha) in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

10. Try to be the Best:

Always remember the words of Allah’s Messenger (Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam): “The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.” Try to be the best!

In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah (Azza wa jall) to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta’ala knows best !!